Don't be so Full of Yourself
I had met a friend's friends last weekend, and i must say that i'm ashamed of knowing such a group of peoples that think they are the centre of the universe, have no respect to others and no manners to the people surround.
I was attended an invitation to friend's place for some small makan-makan things. I was accompanied by another friend which i called as Ray in here. It was normal to bump up with the other crowds in any event and we normally do the things in the sense of normal human being will do. We'll shake hand (with manners) and normally just few greetings words (like hello, or hi). It doesnt have to be so friendly but showing some proffesionality and some respect to peoples.
However, it happened the other way round in here. Ray and myself are irregular to this house, and there come another regular guest after us. To show his 'warm greeting' and salam perkenalan, we do shake hand but the very insincere one you may imagine. Not even a smile in his face, no hello or hi, and worse not even look at our faces! For me that is rude.
Me and Ray just had light refreshment and was talking to each other and sometimes to the host or tuan rumah. It was happended probably for half an hour. Just to say disrespect and his ego towards another guest, this guy didnt even join the conversation and speak no words to us. There wasn't three way communication in there.
I never blamed the host, blame nobody. It just an opportunity to meet with different walks of peoples in this life. Somehow we'll only pickup some lessson only from observing others.
i do feel proud, over myself and my close friend. Alhamdulillah so far i think i still manage how to mingle around with peoples and not being judgemental before knowing. And we do know the fact that it is not us to tell which standard we stand, people who see you will tell you.
In the mean words, stop feel so full of yourself...setiap kali kita rasa kita cantik dan hebat, tunduklah sekejap dan ingat masih sangat ramai manusia yang sempurna di luar sana..yang punyai segalanya dan masih memandang tanah yg dipijak.
I was attended an invitation to friend's place for some small makan-makan things. I was accompanied by another friend which i called as Ray in here. It was normal to bump up with the other crowds in any event and we normally do the things in the sense of normal human being will do. We'll shake hand (with manners) and normally just few greetings words (like hello, or hi). It doesnt have to be so friendly but showing some proffesionality and some respect to peoples.
However, it happened the other way round in here. Ray and myself are irregular to this house, and there come another regular guest after us. To show his 'warm greeting' and salam perkenalan, we do shake hand but the very insincere one you may imagine. Not even a smile in his face, no hello or hi, and worse not even look at our faces! For me that is rude.
Me and Ray just had light refreshment and was talking to each other and sometimes to the host or tuan rumah. It was happended probably for half an hour. Just to say disrespect and his ego towards another guest, this guy didnt even join the conversation and speak no words to us. There wasn't three way communication in there.
I never blamed the host, blame nobody. It just an opportunity to meet with different walks of peoples in this life. Somehow we'll only pickup some lessson only from observing others.
i do feel proud, over myself and my close friend. Alhamdulillah so far i think i still manage how to mingle around with peoples and not being judgemental before knowing. And we do know the fact that it is not us to tell which standard we stand, people who see you will tell you.
In the mean words, stop feel so full of yourself...setiap kali kita rasa kita cantik dan hebat, tunduklah sekejap dan ingat masih sangat ramai manusia yang sempurna di luar sana..yang punyai segalanya dan masih memandang tanah yg dipijak.
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